Teenage – We have all been there.
The quintessential period of our life where we are expected to take decisions like
adults and be obedient like kids. It’s strange and obnoxious to expect a person
to live a dual life and expect that the person will like all the aspects about
it. Think about it. You are offered a gun and then they will tell you not to
use it even for self defense. Would that make any sense at all? Teenage is very
similar to this.
Teenagers are a different breed;
similar to childhood and adulthood, teenage needs to be given due importance
and most imperative of them all – freedom. Humor them if needed, do not coax
them. Diplomacy is an essential tool while dealing with these youngsters.
Walking a tightrope when you are nearing adulthood, means one wrong swing and
the acrobat will topple from a precarious perch. One sure shot advice is to
treat them like puppies, be stern but do not be rash. Guide them without any
forceful instructions and they will listen.
Raging hormones tend to generate
mood swings and anger becomes one of the quickest responses. It does not take
much of an effort to irritate them at times as well. Movies, comics, video
games, porn – their world gets populated by distractions which seem to be the
only sane option to choose from. As per popular statistics, juvenile offenders
fall in the teenage age group most of the time. Many of them have this extreme
fantasy of being the new upcoming movie star or rock legend. They run away from
home, get trapped in a vicious cycle of crime and drugs. They forget their own
existence and give into the evils which welcome them with open arms and smiling
faces.
Multiple colleges and schools
have initiated counseling sessions for this specific teenage group to curb
anger and channel it in a positive manner. Sports are refined mediums to get
the hormones in control. Physical activity assists in letting out suppressed
rage and anger in the best way possible allowing a person to feel light headed
and relaxed. To suffice, treat them as they are-a group of youngsters with
bursting energy looking for constructive ways to utilize it. They have the
potential to create a wonderful future both for themselves and for the people
around them.
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